I am trying to rid myself of the baggage they put on me my entire life. Started with my grandmother, then through my mother. I want to be able to go on with my life without feeling the guilt they laid upon me for being born.
you may need a ritual for that. I only say this because rituals have a way of illustrating your request to the universe in a different way than a spell. The set up, the words, the movement, colors, incense - all the sensual cues of ritual can help bring you to a place where you can cut the ties.
I will suggest, if possible, you do this without anger. You don't want to disengage, only to have lingering negativity. Go into it with a solid purpose, strong will, and pure intent.
The basic construct of a ritual is:
prayers if desired
symbolic actions and words
giving thanks to the Universe (or God) for any aid provided
Thank you, Glinda. I appreciate your guidance. I will keep this in mind as I continue to formulate what I am going to do. I bear no ill will to my family, I'm sure this pattern has gone on for generations. I just need to let it go.
Cord cutting spells are usually the best to start with. That way you are simply cutting your ties with whatever you need without sending ill will towards the cause of the need. But, from personal experience, it is difficult to cut ties with ancestors without facing the problem that caused you to feel this way. Xo